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That's mine! Husband mad that I won't share my stuff

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Submitted by Jinglebellheart on Thu, 08/17/2017 - 5:42pm

My 20 year old stepdaughter has a habit of just taking and using my things. I went into her room recently and found my curling iron, nail polish, hair elastics and makeup brushes amongst other things that I keep under my bathroom sink. I didnt make a big stink about it just took my stuff back and left a note that said "please ask before taking my things and please return them in the way in which found". She didn't respond to me or anything as usual just ignored my existence. Not too long after some of my make-up goes missing.

Are stepmoms supposed to put up and shut up?

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Submitted by Jinglebellheart on Mon, 08/14/2017 - 11:28am

My husband always tells me my two cents are not needed and I need not concern myself when it comes to him his 20 year old daughter and ex wife. We have gotten into a lot of arguments over this. We have two toddlers together and he thinks I should just worry about them and keep my nose out of everything else. Well if you read my last post his 20 year old daughter got pregnant on purpose by a guy she barely knows. She doesn't want to work or finish school. If this guy doesn't end up sticking around and taking care of her she will expect to move in here and have daddy help.

Young stepdaughter pregnant on purpose!

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Submitted by Jinglebellheart on Sun, 08/13/2017 - 10:08pm

I'm glad this site exist. My husband and kids are fast asleep so it's a good time to get things off my chest and seek advice without anyone in my buisness.

I guess I can start off by an introduction.I am in my mid 30s I have two young daughters one who will be 2 in October and one who will be 4 in January. My husband has a 20 year old daughter who stays with us between semesters. Well on and off between my husband and her mother.