Why can't ppl grow up?!?
So my hubby decided what our vacation was goin to be this year .. Which is to aocal amusement park several times through the summer.. Ok fine ... EXCEPT he doesn't have the money to buy his kids tickets .. We got ours months ago and didn't have enough to buy all of them at the time . So now here it is time to go and he doesn't have the money so he expects me to cover what his parents aren't. Wouldn't bother me except I've had to cover part if his bills like always. I've given him close to $500 this month already and he needs more .. Kid these kids are not nice to me nor do they mind... Feels like I'm just a paycheck
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Don't pay for it. He wants
Don't pay for it. He wants his kids to go so he should make a plan and get the cash. Kids won't appreciate you paying anyway so don't.
If his kids are rude to you,
If his kids are rude to you, then I wouldn't pay for SH*T! And why are you giving him money girl? If he is coming up short on funds that is what a part time job is for! I worked a full time job and a part time job for YEARS to make ends meet because that is what you do, not mooch off someone else. Tell him to man up handle his business. And again, do not pay for his kids who treat you with disrespect anything! NO NO NO
Oh he's been promising since
Oh he's been promising since January .. He thinks he is sooooo responsible with his money and he only buys gas and food (that's what he says). I use to work extra OT and he got mad over that and said it was just so I didn't have to be around his kids & I said no it's so OUR kids can eat and have a place to live .. But I finally said I'm tired of working all this extra and being accused of stuff so I won't work extra and if you can't pay your bills oh well
Well then Daddy can't keep
Well then Daddy can't keep his promise. You are not a cash machine jewals!
Let him take responsibility here.
Nope. Don't do it. Let him
Nope. Don't do it. Let him find the money, especially if you have to pay more of your joint bills because of the money he pays for them or his salary is too low. Not your kids, not your problem.
Hell no. Anything good you
Hell no. Anything good you do for the stepkids can and will be held against you, and you just end up resenting it more because you were trying to be nice to them and you feel like an idiot. I have made it a hard, fast rule not to go out of my way to do nice things for SD12.
I use to feel bad for him and
I use to feel bad for him and help him out with bills and it just gets worse and worse needig more and more ... His parents are going to pay for part of the tickets
Jewals- Obviously none of us
Jewals-
Obviously none of us can tell you what to do with YOUR money. But I do know when I was married that we fought about money ALL the time! Other than him being a cheating, lying bastard, fighting over money was a big issue. So from the divorce forward I never have had a joint account again. So and I have our own money, our own accounts and each person is responsible for X bills. I do not ask what he spends his extra money on and he doesn't ask me. This is one possible problem that we have eliminated by not including finances and finance problems in our daily life. I really urge you to consider sitting him down and letting him know that you are not long financing him and his kids lifestyle and you start putting some of that money in investments and towards your future.
Just my two cents, in no way do I mean to tell you what to do of offend you, so please just read it as friendly advice
We have separate bank
We have separate bank accts..I didn't ask where his money was going until he needed money On a regular basis..
Sounds like he is just taking
Sounds like he is just taking advantage of your good nature.
It's time for him to put on his big boy pants.