Hello, I'm new here 22F dating 33M who has two kids 12M and 13F. BM 45F is insane. She is manipulative and will call my partner just screaming her head off still to this day and he has to hang up on her. There was no divorce he never married her and left two years ago him and I got together 4 months after he left (third time he left BM). We live together and I feel like I'm getting the shortest end of the stick in the world.