Update to earlier:

So tells BM that he will switch days and take SD on Monday instead of his usual Sunday because it is mothers day and SD should rightfully spend time with her "mother".
Whatever, his choice I am ok with that.

BM then wants to know if he is working Monday night. He tells her that yes he works every Monday night but he is going to work his schedule around so that he can take SD.

An hour long text marathon ensues (just BM) about why would SO tell her that he was working Monday but then turn around and say he can take SD? blahblahblah (SHE IS BATSHIT CRAZY)

she could be standing in the rain and want to argue with you about how sunny and beautiful it is outside. THAT is her effing logic. Whatever, he just ignores her.

She then goes on to say that if she catches him at work Monday that he will be in contempt and go to jail THAT NIGHT.

OK. He is only switching days to convienence you!

And yes, he will be at work that night because we are poor and he can not afford to take an entire night off (but we wont tell her that because then she wont let him have SD)

BUT it is none of her damn business. She does NOT have right of refusal. It is NOT her call whether SO has to be present for his entire visitation period.

SO will be going to work after SD is in bed anyway.

Whatever she is soooooo STUPID LOL

In other news, I just dusted my entire house, including the ceilings lol, what a fantastic night!