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OT-New Squidoo lens with information about Texas Child Support laws, etc.
Because of the nightmare that Texas has put us through, I thought I'd write a lens about where to find the actual Texas laws, how to protect yourself, etc...if anyone pays child support to/in Texas, and you'd like to keep the info handy, here is the link
OT-anyone on twitter?
I am constantly reading on the internet and began a twitter account to post things that help us as "stepmoms, WIVES..." (I hate that second wife word)...anyway, my twitter account is "thewifeshop" if you want to follow my posts or PM me or put your account here and I'll follow you...
PS - I am sorry but this will be from the perspective of a stepmom, not from the perspective of a BM that is divorced and has problems with her ex...so keep that in mind if you want to follow me...
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OT-my kiddo...lying? NEVER? I am starting to HATE DH more every day...
Today was a horrible day...AHOLE DH came home after drinking an at 11PM OUR son says "I'm starving"...Mind you, he does this ALL THE TIME...DH KNOWS how much he eats...but today, you see, DH had a stick up his butt...so he gets angry and starts making our son some hot dogs at 11PM! Mind you, I left at 8PM and went to McDonalds with him and got him an ADULT meal, not a kid's meal...and he ate ALL OF IT...Mind you I cooked Hot Dogs and fries for him at around 4PM when I realized ahole DH was coming home late as he was "networking, ie.
I am starting to think DH is a liar...really getting sick of this mess...VENT
Today I found that DH might actually have a facebook account...It ticks me off to no end because he knows EVERYTHING I have and goes into it, etc...I don't mind...I have NOTHING to hide...on the other hand he's been acting like an ahole lately, especially today...and I keep thinking the whole "you are a loser F U" text from truant did not just come out of nowhere...well, I believe he actually DOES have a facebook acct...
OT-am I wrong? DH doesn't answer his phone
My DH arrived today after having some drinks with friends. To me he had too many, to him he had not. At 8pm I went to Walmart w/my kiddo...we ate at McDonalds and shopped. At 10pm on my way home I call both his cell phones and no answer. I get home and he is asleep.
1)to me if you aré a responsible husband/wife, you always answer your phone if your wife/kids are out, especially at night...anything could happen and my thought is you either stay awake until they arrive home safely or put both phones next to you and answer if they call...or anyone for that matter.
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FYI-Arizona CS amounts to increase CONSIDERABLY...absolutely ridiculous!
Here is the info...
http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=4897
Basically, the intent is to have both NCP and CP end up with "same amount of income"...nice, huh? So, that would mean that in the NCP household everyone suffers, in the CP household, eveyone enjoys the standard of living of the EX-HUSBAND! pathetic!
Outrageous cs? Ha...a lady I met yesterday
I saw a lady yesterday that I met when I was little...she is divorced w/a 4yr old.
Her cs? And she works partime and makes tons...
1,300 cs & spousal support
apt mortgage fully paid by ex
car & cell fully paid by ex
kid's 500USD+ monthly paid by ex
insurance & medical for her & kid paid by ex
cleaning lady sometimes paid by ex
eow ex has kid 4 full days
she wanted divorce because she was no longer "in love"
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5yr old neighbor & BM obviously wrecking his brain...what to do?
There is a little 5yr old kid who is our neighbor...he lives w/dad and dad's parents...BM has visitation...He comes to play w/our kiddo alot and even eats dinner w/us sometimes. We know his grandparents and they are very sweet people and respectable...here's what happened...
The other day my kiddo and him were eating at the table and being silly. Just saying spongebob lines and laughing...all of a sudden little boy says "kiddo (my son) likes to sleep with women!" WTH? I almost had a heart attack! He is 5!!! He had just returned from visitation whis BM...
BM buys Hollister for other kid, but no money for skid?
I find it funny truant calls DH a loset because "her mom has 2 other kids to support and DH won't send her extra money and she NEEDS school clothes", yet skid's sister got tickets to see Justin Bieber just a couple of months ago, now her sister writes on myspace "my mom got me a bunch of Hollister shirts-mood spoiled"...meanwhile in the last 6mos i have only bought 3usd tank topa for myself at walmart and the same for our son! All of BMs kids have cell phones, dress in brand ñame clothes, the girls get their hair dyed and cut professionally and DH is a loser?
Cameras, recordings, etc while skids visit?
I am wondering after hearing so many stories of how skids abuse you or your kids, have any of you considered installing cameras or getting little soy recorders to prove to your DHs what happens when they're not around? I had a few issues w/truant and just told DH that I would not play she said/she said w/him...so truant would never be alone w/me again...but if that had not been possible I was ready to get spy gear to prove it!
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