I have been with my partner for for two years and engaged a year in May 2012. He has two kids from a previous marriage and has since become a taxi driver. Prior to meeting myself he used to get his mum to watch the two kids for him to work at the weekends (night shift). Now that he lives with me he expects me to watch them every second weekend while he works nightshift. This means I have to watch them at night and day because he is sleeping and in turn unable to get a long lie, because they are up early on the Saturday Sunday morning.