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Submitted by DontCallMeStepmom16 on Mon, 03/21/2016 - 2:23pm

Anybody else out there have a teenage SD that is the most manipulative, lying, theiving, SELF CENTERED, passive aggressive, spoiled brat person that you have ever met? And add that DH sees NO WRONG at all? Ugh...the wind that it takes out of my sails is unbelievable. I get she's daddy little girl. I get she's little miss princASS do no wrong. I get it.

SS thinks he's slick

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Submitted by DontCallMeStepmom16 on Mon, 09/14/2015 - 9:47am

I'm not sure when these little monsters will learn but they still continue to think they can get one over on me. School started a couple weeks ago and it has been the same as it has been for years; I pick out the 3 boys's clothes the night before. They tend to wear holy, staind, non matching clothes that don't fit. SS10 and SS12 look like hell when they are at their Moms house but they are not going to look like that walking out of my house.

Sociopath

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Submitted by DontCallMeStepmom16 on Fri, 04/17/2015 - 9:39am

Finally figured out what the issue with 15 year old SD. Ive always knew her "issues" were more than normal kid issues. I have done ALOT of research lately and I am convinced she is a sociopath. In doing research, she has all of the symptoms, minus the violence, but that doesn't have to be one. Nobody can be diagnosed with that until they are 18, however there are at least 15 things she exhibits on a daily basis that coincide with the list. And it all makes sense now. In finding this, I know the right thing to do is go to DH and discuss this, but I am tired.

I hope this helps you!

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Submitted by DontCallMeStepmom16 on Thu, 12/04/2014 - 9:25am

I had a rough day yesterday with the skids. I am not a "religious" type of person so to speak, but I do pray and believe in God. I came across an article last night that put some things into perspective. It changed my mood, and if your skids are putting you through hell right now, I hope this can change your mind set for the moment. Even just a little.

Any and All advice on Disengaging PLEASE!

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Submitted by DontCallMeStepmom16 on Mon, 11/24/2014 - 4:26am

I have done a lot of research lately on disengaging from my 3 skids. I also think it will be the best thing for my DH to disengage from my son as well. The questions that I have

*How far has YOUR disengagement gone? Do you do separate laundry? Cook separate meals? Buy separate groceries? Christmas/holidays together?

Why do you lie!!!!

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Submitted by DontCallMeStepmom16 on Sun, 11/23/2014 - 6:17am

Not even 7am and SS12 has started. Kids asked if they could have a sleep over last night.....Sure. I work from home, in the living room on my laptop. I said I don't care where you all sleep, but if I come downstairs at 6:45am and see someone sleeping in my work chair, I'm going to be pissed. Guess what. Came down and SS12 in my chair. Woke him up and told him to find someplace else to sleep. He got up and went to the bathroom upstairs (I could hear him peeing in the toilet because he never shuts the door. Always WIDE open.) I didn't hear the toilet flush.

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