Anon2009's Blog
Dr. Phil today- the 18 year old other woman- her man left his wife and 10 kids for her, and what I would do as the wife/child
he left for this girl.
I didn't get a chance to see it but it sounds interesting. It really made me think about what I would do if I was the wife this man left for this little girl. What I'd do if I was one of the kids.
If I were the wife of two decades I'd hire the best attorney possible. I wouldn't PAS the kids but I'd make this man pay in every way possible allowed by law. And I would tell everyone in town about the two of them. They'd be very sorry they ever f*cked with me.
Here's a link to the show:
Did anyone see this 48 Hours episode called "Ambushed" about a child custody dispute?
It was really scary- the bio dad was killed by the stepdad and the BM and her dad were also involved. The bio dad was 24 
The stepdad, Michael Wolfe, adopted the child involved just months after he killed the boy's dad.
The bm's dad is dead (hopefully in he11).
Mothers Day-do you think ncp SMs should be recognized? Why/why not?
I think it depends on the situation and just how involved the sm is. I know when I was a ncp sm I appreciated anything dh did for me to show me appreciation, but I didn't care if I got anything from sks or not (and I really still don't). But I do like dh to show me recognition on Mother's Day and he knows that.
Why I feel PASed teens are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Are they supposed to fight the CP and feel their wrath for
sticking up for the NCP?
I feel these kids are stuck between a rock and a hard place because the person the PAS is coming from is often their own custodial biomom. The CP is the one they are primarily worried about pleasing just by virtue of the fact that they live with them. So what is the teen supposed to do? What should they do?
Was your DH married to BM?
It seems like there are a lot of situations here where they were married and then divorced. It also seems like there are a lot of situations where they weren't married.
If they weren't married, were they dating, one night stand or friends with benefits?
- Read more about Was your DH married to BM?
- 11 comments
- Log in or register to post comments
A recent blog on personal responsibility got me to thinking about responsibility in general.
So many people seem to not be taking responsibility for anything nowadays. So many adults on trial for serious charges seem to pin the crime onto others and/or sad childhoods. It's not their fault!
Anyway, it seems to happen here too. BMs do not take responsibilities for their kids or actions.
SKs and FB
To be blunt, I don't get why this is such a big issue for some. SKs are going to write stupid crap on their FB accounts. Loads of kids from intact families lie and write mean things about people on FB all.the.time.
Some simple solutions to this problem:
1. Don't look at their FB profiles.
2. If you are friends with them on FB, unfriend them.
3. If you're not friends with them on FB, don't friend them.
- Read more about SKs and FB
- 11 comments
- Log in or register to post comments
A spin off of Ana's blog- forsaking all others
I have a whole mess of ideas and thoughts on this topic.
I think it's a lot easier for many people to do in a first marriage. There are no ex wives/husbands or kids. Although sadly, it seems that many people now are dealing with ex girlfriends/boyfriends/one night stands and kids before they marry (if they marry at all). So while I don't agree with the behaviors of many of the dads here, I can see how it is so easy to act the way they do.
- Read more about A spin off of Ana's blog- forsaking all others
- 3 comments
- Log in or register to post comments
For those of you with problem MILs- you should see this Dr. Phil episode-one of the DILs is a sm
It is called "On the Outs With the Inlaws." One of the DILs has sks with special needs. It's a rerun. Here's a link:
http://drphil.com/shows/show/686
What do you think?
Do you ever think that if the big things were addressed, small things wouldn't bother us as much?
Do you think that if Dads addressed the big issues and did things to address them, like the skids $hitty treatment of us and disrespect to us and others, and actuallty held them to some standards, small things (like the nicknames these dads have for their kids) wouldn't bother us as much?
The blog about dads calling their daughters sweetheart, honey, etc., got me to thinking about this. To be honest, I don't mind that DH calls the girls honey & sweetheart. But he holds them to standards as to how to treat everyone.