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Was your DH married to BM?

Anon2009's picture

Submitted by Anon2009 on Tue, 04/09/2013 - 9:08pm

It seems like there are a lot of situations here where they were married and then divorced. It also seems like there are a lot of situations where they weren't married.

If they weren't married, were they dating, one night stand or friends with benefits?

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Disneyfan's picture

Submitted by Disneyfan on Tue, 04/09/2013 - 9:53pm

He lived with the normal one for eight years. When they broke up, he moved back here and reconnected with Dumb. ASS

They were married for three years.

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Submitted by Wedschilde on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 8:57am

Mine was married for 25 years. He spent the last 15 planning the divorce, but did that "I'll stay for the kids" thing. With the result that his kids got to grow up with a mom with narcissistic personality disorder. Great call, DH.

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Submitted by New second wife... on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 10:05am

They lived together for almost 20 years and even though he suspected she was cheating on him he married her after SS was born.

He admits that he messed up by getting involved with a cheater and thinking she would be faithful to him and that he definitely should not have married her.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 3:50pm

Yeah, that was a really stupid and selfish decision on their parts. It makes me feel kind of sad for SS.

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Submitted by Unfreakingreal on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:39am

High School fuck buddies cause I won't be able to stomach the HS sweethearts term. Knocked her up and got stuck with her. Lived with her on and off for 11 years. The 2nd child was an oops baby cause (according to HIM) he was planning on leaving her when she got pregnant again. They never married. He had never been married before. When she found out he proposed to me, she told the skids that he wasn't supposed to marry me because I wasn't the mother of his children.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 10:44am

Yes, they married after she got pregnant. Stupid mistake, yes. They were married about 13 yrs, together 15.

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Submitted by IfearImgoinnutz on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:22am

Yep, unfortunately, together 5 years, she got pregnant, they got married, married 5 years. I ask DH all the time how the hell he stayed w/her so long as the mere sound of her voice on a voicemail makes my skin crawl and he replies "lots and lots of alcohol and narcotics" lmao

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 10:53am

DH and BM had a shotgun wedding after she got pregnant. Lo and behold, she got preggo again when she knew DH was plannign to leave.

Why the hell was he sleeping with her when he was planning to leave??? Drrr......

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Submitted by fedup13 on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 4:24pm

DH married BM after he stupidly and drunkenly fell in the sack with her one night. It was a one night thing, he did not see nor speak to her for two months, she called 2 months after the God awful incident occurred, said she was pregnant, and his dumbass allowed himself to be controlled and manipulated by his mother into marrying the bitch. He married her when she was five or six months pregnant, and it lasted less than a year. They never had a real marriage, they just lived under the same roof for a while because of skid. She is actually a closeted lesbian and just an all around horrible person, so he got the Hell gone once he realized there was no way he could stomach her presence every day, not even for skid's sake. and it has been a nightmare ever since. 100% all his fault and I do not feel one ounce of sympathy for him.