I am a stay at home mom. I have four kids of my own(13,10,2,1) and 1 step son (10)who comes all summer, christmas, spring break and every other thanksgiving. I dont even know where to begin... My husbands ex wife is a crazy psycho path who demands how and what her son does while he is visiting with us. My husband travels Mondays through Wednesdays sometimes even till thursdays. I keep my kids on a routine and give them 1-2 chores a day. Well, step son is always peeved off about the chores, eating vegetables and fruits with our family.