My SD is almost 7. My husband and I are 26. She came to live with us in 2018 February. In May of 2018, her mom stopped seeing her all together by choice. I will just say it was an abuse case where she almost died on the stepfather and he went to jail. Her mom stayed with him. She does see her maternal grandfather on a regular basis where she can still see her brother (who is not my husband's child). She also has a sister who was born after the abuse case and she has never met her.