So a bit of background. My husband and I have been together for 11 years. He is older than I am and has 3 adult children with kids of their own. We are reasonably close with them, the youngest in particular. My husbands mother absolutely adores his ex wife. For years his ex referred to his parents as her mom and dad and spent her day liking and commenting on every Facebook post his family made almost to the point of obsession. Finally after a string of men she found a very wealthy lottery winner and they got married.