I know he's going to attempt communication with me but, talking to him just seems pointless to me. He'll go in to this whole 'charming guy' mode and tell me everything under the sun to get me to change my mind. He'll promise me everything will change and beg me to give him another chance. Of course I know, it will just be words with no actions to back it up. SSDD. He'll expect me to talk about all of it, which is all fine and good, except I already gave him millions of chances to talk. Ultimately, I'll end up on the nasty end of silent treatment or he'll rage. OR, he'll cry and try to make me feel as though I'm being unfair.
My family (excepy my brother) thinks I should hear him out and I think I should forward all of his calls to VM. I do have many things I'd like to say but, again, it's pointless at this stage of the game. We're not on different pages of the same book, we're not even in the same book anymore.
My plan is have him served at home Tuesday. Any other day and I'd have to have him served at work. I don't want to be that horrible about this. I just want and end to this farce of a marriage. Any suggestions?