Hello, I'm new and just joined tonight to not feel so alone right now. having trouble w/ all the abreviations...I get SS, SD, BM...those are easy but some of the others are difficult. is there somewhere that tells me what all the abreviations mean?

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Submitted by usmcstepmom on Sun, 06/17/2012 - 1:55am
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If you go to FAQ - up on the
If you go to FAQ - up on the left top of your screen, there is a list of commonly used abbreviations for the site.
Veteran disengaged SM of 11 years.
Hi usmcstepmom. I'm new here
Hi usmcstepmom. I'm new here too, so we can be new together.
SO isn't on that FAQ list, but I'm assuming it's significant other (that's how I'm using it, at least). I saw GUBM somewhere (sorry, can't remember whose post), and that threw me.
The acronyms can be a little overwhelming, but I'm thinking that they become second nature over time.
GUBM threw me too...
GUBM threw me too...
I don't cater to crazy.
Hahaha, that's my BM...the
Hahaha, that's my BM...the GUBM. It stands for Golden Uterus Bio Mom/Birth Mom. Once upon a time, another blogger on here posted this article:
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/05/17/does-your-wife-or-ex-wife-have-a-go...
which describes the Golden Uterus Complex. It also describes the BM I have to deal with perfectly. It's almost like the person who wrote it spent a year observing GUBM.
And, so, she was thus dubbed the GUBM.
I think I will!
I think I will!
GU = Golden Uterus so GUBM =
GU = Golden Uterus so GUBM = Golden Uterus Birth Mum
`Tis better to stay quiet and be thought stupid, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
USMCSM -- welcome to
USMCSM -- welcome to steptalk!
I don't cater to crazy.
Semper Fi from a Stumps brat.
Semper Fi from a Stumps brat. Not able to serve due to child onset (T-1) diabetes but I was born to a Marine at the base hospital in 29 Palms.
The TLA's (Two/Three Letter+ Acronyms) will become clear over time. If they don't just ask.
A few to get you started beyond the ones you have already identified:
DH = Dear Husband.
DW = Dear Wife
XW/XH = X (Spouse of appropriate flavor)
MIL/FIL/SIL/BIL = In laws of appropriate flavor.
BS/BD = Bio kids of appropriate flavor.
I hope you find this a good place to vent, contribute and to pick up some useful advice from others who are living the blended family dream.
Welcome and best regards,
Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi with some minor Rags modifications
If you can't listen and learn you will have to feel. Quoted from my grandmother
Welcome! Semper Fi! 17 yrs
Welcome! Semper Fi! 17 yrs active AF here and a BM and SM.
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My IPOD says you are full of bullshit!
OMG BM has a Golden Uterus
OMG BM has a Golden Uterus Complex!!!! Why didn't I know about this before!?
"Life-It is sexually transmitted and is always fatal" ~Anonymous
Ha! That's the same reaction
Ha! That's the same reaction I had when I first read that article. It's really eye opening, isn't it?