FORWARD to DH and be done. Let him deal with it.

This is part of the fallout I was referring to earlier - its bound to happen as mini-wife deals with being put in her place.

Do not respond.

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Man, does she really think you wouldn't just send that on to your DH?

Actually, she does think that - that just shows how far gone she is - WOW.

Its great she is opening DHs eyes to exactly what you were trying to tell him all by herself.

Shes scared. And shes trying to keep him away from you. What that was is a last ditch effort of desperation.

that sounds like my dh's ex wife. she needs therapy and he needs to punish her!

She has daddy issues or is her BM who is doing this?

Shes in therapy. Have no clue what they talk about but the therapist thinks she is doing well...

Sd is

You know I feel bad for her at times to but she is making my life a living HELL....So the feeling bad for her is slowly going away!!!!

Yeh, McCrazy's therapist said she was coping, as well. Some therpists are douchefucks.

I hope you dh makes it clear to her that he turned off his phone and why.

I hope so...But its out of my hands and if my DH wants this to work he needs to do something and he knows that. he never thought i would make him leave because of his daughter...SURPRISE!!!

What is he doing to stop this behavior??? I would take her phone away. If she cannot respect boundaries such as not calling 100 thousand times when daddy is out of her view, or sending awful text messages to her daddy's real wife, I'd be taking that phone away asap. Doesn't sound like she has any friends, doesn't go anywhere, no need for a phone.

Keep us posted on what he does to take care of it.

I agree with Charly - but first she should be required to use the phone to CALL you and apologize.

Man, this little girl is in for some big changes.

When I was 16 years what/where my parents were was the last thing on my mind!! This girl is not doing well, I agree she needs a new therapist. If that text don't open DH eyes to what she is doing nothing will.....

I think you did the right thing in ignoring ehr and forwarding her message. This is confirmation that his daughter is interferring in his life in ways he did not ever think she would and the murkiness that has become your marriage is clearing and he is seeing his DD exactly for who she is.

She has issues and her father needs to get these in hand very quickly.

what is wrong with her?
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Your DH and his lack of parenting.
I would beat my kids ass for sending something like that to the person I love. I don't care how old she is.

She's batshit crazy. Hopefully this text will prove it to him and he'll be able to get a handle on it.

I would block her number.

Wow - she's something else isn't she.

I also would show this to her therapist. SD is quite obviously not doing well.

Crazy....I hope your DH deals with this crap ASAP.

I think it's great that she said such blatant BS that showed exactly where she is coming from!!! Hard to ignore it now, isn't it DH?

Omg!!! The nerve of that lil brat!!! I'm so anxious to know what DH did? I agree with some or the others... She should loose the phone, and you go directly to the therapists office and personally show him the text!

I'm always searching everyday for your blogs.. I feel for you :/
Hang in there daisy!

I think many of us have received at least one text or email similar to that in the past. In my case, I choose to overlook the obvious teenage angst and try to communicate with some rational talk. Big, huge, hairy mistake. In the years since, upon retrospect, I would have one response...

"If you've got something to say to me, grow up and come say it to my face. Be prepared for a 2-way conversation."

I'd blast them into out.er.fu.ck.ing.space if they said to my face what they have written to me. Which is WHY they would NEVER attempt the direct approach.